There are many different opinions on whether or not soul mates exist. This is an area where there are no hard and fast rules, and what each person believes or experiences can be quite different from the next. Your ideals may be shaped by what you have felt in your personal life, or what you’ve seen in your parents or grandparents’ relationships.
Let’s have a closer look at what they are, and if they exist, how you can increase your chances of finding yours.
What are Soul Mates?
A soul mate is generally believed to be someone ideally suited to you and with who you have a deep and spiritual connection. You may feel instantly at ease with this person and able to be completely yourself. You may also have a connection on a higher level, being able to read each other’s feelings or communicate without words.
A soul mate will help you to be the best person you can be, and can transcend your soul to a higher plane with their presence in your life. They are usually a romantic partner, but can also be a close platonic friend.
Some people believe that you only have one soul mate in your life, while others believe you may get more than one. Some people may never find theirs, while others disagree that the concept of soul mates even exists.
Can You Increase Your Chances of Finding Your Soul Mate?
If you believe that there is a soul mate out there for you somewhere, there are some things that you can do to increase your chances of meeting them.
1. Be open to positive experiences and new people
While some people might find their soul mate just sitting around at home, this would happen very rarely. To increase your chances of meeting a soul mate you need to open yourself up to meeting all kinds of people and having new experiences.
You do need to be open to the idea of connecting with another person and willing to be hurt, because having protective barriers up around your soul can stop you from seeing this person when you meet.
2. Be alert to how different people affect you
We are so busy with our modern lives and have a million things on our minds, so it could be easy to actually meet your soul mate and not even realise it. To increase your chances of knowing when this happens you need to slow down and pay attention to your mind and your heart, and to how other people make you feel.
3. Heal and move on from problem behaviours and toxic people and relationships
If you are stuck in a bad relationship or making a series of bad behaviour choices then you may not be open to meeting your soul mate when they come along. Help yourself to heal properly from any heartbreak and make an active decision to be positive and healthy in your behaviours.
4. Believe that you are worth it
We often miss our soul mate when they come along because we don’t realise that it has happened. The saying that you need to love yourself before you can love somebody else makes sense here.
You are more likely to connect when they arrive if you believe that you are worth this kind of love and connection, and are ready to accept it with an open heart.
If you have questions about finding your soul mate please contact myself or of my gifted psychics here
Wishing you a multitude of Blessings, Cecelia